We have learned from past channelings that the nuclear family is a divine design and agenda, that the two sexes were made to complement each other and provide built-in incentives to come together as couples and have these unions last for a lifetime. Do the three main alien races of the Extraterrestrial Alliance also consist of two distinct sexes, male and female? We know that all these civilizations are now loveless, and that would certainly impact the quality and duration of relationships. Can Creator share with us, do aliens mate for life, or even marry?

The general schema of a binary gender distinction between male and female is characteristic of all three alien races. That has not been corrupted to blur distinctions or become more fragmented, but the key purpose of life, being love-based and love-focused, has been lost because of a disconnection from spirituality for all three of these races of beings, because all were heavily corrupted by spirit meddler attachments for many millions of years now, and this has taken a toll in widening the gap, and with so much time having gone by, these civilizations have hardened into a materialist perspective with ingrained selfish motivations governing everything. These beings are true psychopaths at this point and only serve themselves. They might be forced to defer self-interest to someone in a position of greater power or authority within their hierarchical systems of power and control, but that is not the same as having ideals and making self-sacrifices for the good of all, or for a cause larger than the self and even than the fellow members of the group, as with serving the divine. So this changes everything in the mix of motivations and potential rewards that are possible, given the great limitations of each individual, so relationships are much less stable or lengthy in duration because beings, in the absence of love, end up having to serve one another, and that goes against their nature. There are alliances that form that are more like a business arrangement, with shared responsibilities and duties to establish a partnership, but it will be without the joys of true and deep friendship that is always love‑based, let alone the emptiness of sexual relationships with no love in the mix even being possible. There is a registration of offspring and there are contractual arrangements akin to marriage because, by the very nature of these limited beings, they are not trusting or generous and giving, prone to kindness, as is true of human beings on average. So there is much cynicism, and given the long lifespan compared to human, of extraterrestrial beings, they have learned they cannot trust anyone fully, and so they do not expect or enter into quite long-lived working arrangements readily. This is all quite sad because there is an emptiness in the lives of these beings, not knowing love that people take for granted, because it is in your nature as humans to have loving impulses very strongly as infants, and this will only wane if it is suppressed in some way through mistreatment or neglect. Otherwise, people will yearn for love on a lifelong basis, and will rarely give up the search even if circumstances work against them, and that is in keeping with the reality that love is an imperative, from a divine perspective, and the overall plan for all beings in the universe to both need and give love, at least for the sentient beings capable of more refined and complex thinking. So in the alien worlds, pair-bonding is a utilitarian exercise when there is a need for offspring, as decided by the state in most cases, and arrangements made for a couple to do the deed and set things in motion, but that is more a practical necessity and a state-sponsored and controlled activity than something resembling a human love relationship giving rise to children and a family orientation as a way of life.