She further asks: “Will I go to heaven when I die?”

You will indeed go to heaven. We will welcome you back with open arms and with extra love because of all you have experienced at the hands of fellow humans who were misguided and hurtful as a result. You have nothing to feel guilt about, embarrassment, or shame. Sexuality is to be enjoyed and shared in whatever form feels right to the person as long as you have a willing, consenting partner. There are always people who will share your perspectives. That is the blessing here, that it is not a question of lacking function, it is a question of feeling uncomfortable doing so and that is a needless obstacle to happiness.