She asks: “Maybe it’s just time to move on and see what’s out there in the world. My husband does nothing to make me feel included. He’s basically zoned out and doesn’t notice anything even when I mention it over and over. Yeah, he’s completely checked out. He claims he loves me and he does many nice things for me but emotionally there’s no one home. Should I start thinking about moving on? Is it time to go? It’s hard to stay in a place where you feel invisible. I mean both families? How can that be a coincidence? Is there something Creator can say to bring light to my very sad and confusing situation?” What can we tell her?

We cannot direct or run your life, because we are not allowed to be in the lead, as that would short-circuit human free will to choose one's path. We understand the feeling here; there are many, many people who have similar quandaries because they are different, and people note that and will recoil to some degree because of inner misgivings that are programmed in. So even close family members will be looked at with some misgivings and suspicion for embracing such beliefs as you espouse, and that may well become a serious bone of contention, depending on the individual makeup in how they handle the inner conflict represented by your being in their presence. Some people will be able to handle this readily by dismissing the inner discord, to live and let live regardless of their uncertainty, because of their belief in family, and if they get to know you well enough and see your essential goodness they will make allowances for your quirkiness and not feel as threatened as others might if they only knew about you, your spiritual leanings, and insights. You must choose your path and not us, but keep in mind that does not mean you will be alone because we will always be with you and a resource within, wherever you go, whatever you do, and so you can call on us for anything you need and we will do our best to support and assist you. Only you can decide the lesser of evils here. Many in your situation will come to some kind of mutual understanding, to simply not engage with one another on a range of topics, and essentially live a more superficial existence that is circumscribed by safe territory and topics of discussion. We understand that is not satisfying to the soul because, after all, this is a soul journey to help you learn and grow, and soul expansion will only come through tackling your life mission to the fullest. So walking on eggshells and tiptoeing around the people close to you is not a prescription for growth and healing, let alone a satisfying expression of the being and seeing you are accepted and appreciated for who you are. Those are, after all, the most important things and a life without them will feel hollow accordingly. Most people who do not find themselves with family members who are on the same wavelength will find an outlet elsewhere, through friends, to discuss such things and share more of themselves than safe to do at home, but keep in mind free thinkers are becoming rarer all the time because of the heavy pressure being applied to rein everyone in to constrain and subjugate them.