This is nothing unusual. It is typically the case for people with serious problems that much time is needed to work their way through the many layers, and have a gradual but eventual improvement where they reach a new plateau of stability and calm, and become more effective in directing their lives through wise choices and prudent behavior. Some of this is simply the need for further maturation, because that will enable him to be stronger and stay the course when there are things he needs to do for his own welfare and long-term success, to not give into short-term difficulties causing greater influence than need be. In the meantime, he is being assisted greatly behind-the-scenes. Your work is instrumental in allowing a deeper healing reach for the ongoing repetitions of the Lightworker Healing Protocol to make the most of the karmic repair that has been working on his vulnerability. This will pay off over the long term. We understand the frustration and heartache that happens in witnessing someone suffering endlessly with seemingly no breakthrough for the better, but that is something that can only happen once the majority of healing has been accomplished. In the meantime, there can be prolonged periods when there seems to be no real progress and even occasional setbacks. But that view is deceptive because you are only seeing the fact there is more work to do, and not any real indicator of how much has actually been accomplished which can be considerable. It is unfortunate, but often the case that the symptoms are the last things to change and show improvement. But all along the way, gains were being made to promote healing and beginning to restore inner balance and remove sources of negativity contributing to the problem. This may take a good deal of time yet, but the healing work is nonetheless helpful, and he needs all the help he can get to remain stable and to have an opportunity to be functional and productive, so he does not give up on life through having too many disappointments and failures. That is what is at risk here. So you are doing the right things in attending to his deepest needs along with all of the other emotional support and coaching and advice-giving and gestures of love, because those are important as well. He needs lots of love to keep going under difficult circumstances where he greatly doubts his own worth and his own capability to be successful and achieve happiness. It is important to work through this dark period so it does not control and limit his life permanently.
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