Is she and/or her daughter being targeted? If so, is that wise to share with her?

We think it is beneficial for the mother to know that it is the daughter who is the true focus of all of the darkness she speaks of arrayed against the two of them. The daughter, of course, is too young to understand, and this is always a very delicate matter to share with anyone. Much will depend on the daughter's ability to mature and comprehend the world she is a part of, and even then, whether it is helpful or hurtful to give her something more to worry about than even the horror show she has been a part of so far. So any thought of discussing this with the daughter needs to be years away, at least, if ever.