Is he being manipulated to engage with her by extraterrestrials in a love bite scenario, or is he a hybrid being himself with ulterior motives?

He is not a hybrid being, so you can rest easy on this account. He was manipulated to have spirit meddlers by extraterrestrial spirits working on behalf of the Alliance, and that is because of his past involvement with religion. They attack such people quite heavily because they know them to be a risk to their agenda, and very few go unscathed. That would explain why there is any intuitive awareness on anyone’s part of some extraterrestrial connection here. It is quite real but comes entirely from the spirit realm, and for reasons of thwarting his spiritual involvement, particularly engaging with others. This as well has transferred into the concern about the woman and her life purpose and involvement with spiritual matters, yet in a different way. What they perceive is that she is a risk to them, and so such individuals will be watched for and when they come to the attention of the Extraterrestrial Alliance will be targeted, most commonly through spirit manipulation by extraterrestrial spirits visiting them to soften them up and create a plan to arrange an infestation with spirit meddlers to drag them down to the greatest extent possible. This minimizes their effectiveness across the board and will work to limit their reach. It is an undermining from within that can take a toll over time particularly, and erode confidence and capability to do high-level work intuitively, and also cause a backlash in wanting to do something of benefit to others. Because the person has been designated a targeted individual, all they do will be suspect and all will be interfered with to whatever extent proves feasible. The level of intensity put to the task will depend on the threat level they perceive. In this case, it is more modest than for some, and this was a saving grace so she is not experiencing the full realm of what can happen.