In New York City, it has been observed that dating apps have enabled many women to establish different kinds of categories for men interested in them. A study reported in the New York Post revealed that 33% of women confessed to going on dates just to get “free food.” They even have a term for it, namely, a “foodie call.” Some women have a full address book of men they can call not only for free food but free home repairs, car repairs, shopping trips, travel, you name it. The women have zero intention of ever getting romantically involved with any of these men. All of these men are in the dreaded “friend zone.” What is Creator’s perspective?

This is a perfect illustration of why things are in such a sorry state of affairs with respect to finding a life partner and love relationship that will be sustainable. The behaviors you describe are almost an act of criminality. They are certainly immoral, being a kind of scam being perpetrated. Those women know that the men are looking for something more but are blithely willing to pick their pocket for personal gain. It is one thing if someone is truly starving, and staring death in the face, and quite another to do so cynically, just to have a more comfy lifestyle, all the while exploiting the hearts of the men who are hoping for more, in wanting companionship and love, but being treated like a walking, talking wallet that can be manipulated to be a personal extra bank account by a wily female stringing them along and manipulating their good intentions to be quite self‑serving. The irony, of course, is that women who live such a lifestyle are also denying themselves true love, but this is the tell, showing that it is not just that some women have figured out how to game the system for personal benefit so they are better supported without taking personal risks of commitment themselves, they are frittering their life away with a series of relationships with people they keep at arm's length, and will never have the reward and joys of true love from a meeting of minds and hearts. We see this as a perfect illustration of what we are laying out for you, that human civilization is heavily corrupted to be dysfunctional in many ways, on many levels, including the dating scene. It has importance to those who truly run the world, to keep humans in check and diminished. If people can be rendered complacent to live fragmented lives and not create families and bear new children, this will begin to deplete society of humans, and that is in alignment with the goal of the interlopers, to be rid of you altogether. They have been working on this in myriad ways for many, many years. It is a kind of amusement for them to see how many ways they can thin the herd without humans even realizing what is going on. For the psychopaths they are, it is a huge reward to their ego because they can exult in the power they hold over you even as they destroy you little by little.