What is highest and best for the family to do in helping these boys overcome their health problems?

The answer here is to heal the one and this will end up healing the other. So, we would recommend concentrating on Boy 2 first and foremost as the one with the largest karmic history of chronic infections and once he has stabilized, then Boy 1 will improve almost without any added help from outside. We, of course, would stop all medication and attend to the needs energetically. We do not recommend your offering this choice because it would put you in harm’s way as a medical practitioner unlicensed to render such opinion, and should there be any setback you might receive a backlash and be blamed. So, under these circumstances, we can certainly provide healing assistance in parallel to the medical treatments being offered. We would encourage the family to participate in doing an outreach through prayer for the divine realm to assist both boys in restoring their health and maintaining their health at a high level with ease and grace. This will speed the healing and allow them to grow and flourish with greater ease and with fewer setbacks and complications along the way.