Concetta’s brother, Harold, died a horrific death from AIDS. Concetta wrote, “I had been talking to the dead almost all my life, but before, they were just spirits that I didn’t know, and to be honest, at times I found them to be nuisances! I didn’t always want to hear these voices, but now there was one voice in particular that I was desperate to hear, and it didn’t come.” He later told her, “Con, tell them. Tell the world what you hear. We need you to, and they need you on that side too.” Why was there a delay? Was her brother hinting at the reality of being in limbo, something Concetta fails to clearly outline in her book? What can Creator tell us?

This is a good example of a missed opportunity where someone with profound ability who was talking with a departed loved one, who had been through a true crisis and extraordinary struggling, but was unable to share that experience with her because it would be leading her from the divine realm where her brother now resided. The medium herself lacked the insight and awareness of the struggle of those in limbo and never contemplated something like that could have happened to her dear brother, and when he was suddenly gone, through his passing, and she was utterly unable to speak to him like she did many departed spirits, was very distressed, and thought of it as a personal failing. The reality was her brother was struggling in limbo and she was not tuning into consciousness at that level but assuming he would be in the higher realm and she was attuned to reaching out to those in the light. Her brother, in his state of being as an earthbound spirit, was so depleted and confused, being isolated and, at the same time, under attack by dark spirit meddlers, was unable to sense her outreach because it was coming from a high vibrational level and not a match to his energies in that depleted state of mind. So the opportunity was missed to continue the relationship and at once learn a new dimension about levels of existence, and this could have opened up new vistas for her if she were research-orientated and inclined to do healing work, in addition to psychic mediumship, as a basic communication.