Another detail that emerged was that Sharada was extremely attracted to a young man who she claimed was her husband in that previous life 150 years earlier. While she apparently languished in limbo all that time, he, on the other hand, returned to the light and reincarnated successfully. Somehow, she was able to locate him reborn in a neighboring state and appeared to have made a concerted effort to take over another woman’s body in order to be with him. Interestingly, he showed absolutely no interest in her. Can Creator tell us if all this is true, the karmic consequences for Sharada in trying to steal another woman’s life for “herself,” and also why her earlier husband showed no interest?

Here again are details and dynamics that are accurately described and recorded, that Sharada recognized the link to her former husband and was wanting to reclaim him. After all, being in limbo for so long and having such a usually restricted life from the time of her passing, she was in a state of depletion, in a degree of loss and despair that is unfathomable for someone who has not gone through such an ordeal. The problem for her was she was only a spirit, not a full human being. She was sharing the human being of Uttara as a kind of platform but she herself was more like a parasite simply hanging on, and though she was able to step forward and put her consciousness on display and describe being in her existence, and taking steps to try to persuade others of the reality of her story, and persuade them to favor her, it was simply words, not truly a deep soul connection because that was weak and being masked by Uttara's greater soul energy in being the true owner of the body, so to speak. So the former husband was hearing the words of this former wife in spirit form but did not see her in looking at Uttara and looking in her eyes, but rather seeing Uttara's soul, with which he had no prior interaction or particular interest, so the relationship was a nonstarter because, as a discarnate spirit, Sharada was in no condition to be a valuable life partner for anyone, other than as a stand-in that was more like an imposter, not to mention the difficulty posed by her story being so hard to believe, even by someone from the Indian culture claiming to be a former spouse. The high strangeness would be a natural barrier to gaining closeness and trust, especially when it does not feel right intuitively. Not everyone has the gifts to make the connections and perceive the linkages to understand something like this taking place even when they themselves are involved. Most people have no recollection of prior lifetimes they have had, so someone coming to them with the story of spending a life with them previously, simply will not resonate to begin with, so that is a tough thing to persuade others to believe when the heart is not being awakened through a greater inner knowing of the deeper truth.