And if things weren’t bad enough, there is the problem of the “alpha male” most women find attractive—tall, dark and handsome, confident and wealthy. Except it seems a great many women misconstrue genuine narcissism for confidence. The result is that the “qualified guy” many modern women are chasing, holding out for, and compromising themselves for, turns out to be an abusive “bad boy” who ultimately treats them inconsiderately, cheats on them with other women, and even abuses them. From his perspective, he has almost endless numbers of attractive women literally lining up and competing for him, so he has little incentive to treat any of them as special. This composite character even has a name, specifically, “Chad Chaddington.” Chad might literally date more than one woman in the same evening, sleep with most on the first date, and never consider committing to anyone. As a result, he leaves in his wake scores of “alpha widows” who can never get over being spurned by Chad and who therefore have a hard time finding any other “beta” men attractive. What is Creator’s perspective?

Here again there can be many, many factors of all kinds in play in the story of an individual and how they link up with someone who is not best for them, so the relationship ends with heartache. Many people have a karmic history of failed relationships, and this sets them up to make poor choices yet again, in a new lifetime, because the Law of Karma will bring them into proximity with a poor candidate and, if they are beguiled, may fall into the same trap simply from being needy and having made this mistake before. But we can tell you there is a heavy orchestration that promotes evildoers. This is because the darkness is real, evil is a force to be reckoned with, and it is aided and abetted by all in its grip. This includes the many, many, fallen angelic, dark spirit meddlers as well as the extraterrestrials in your midst who manipulate the dark spirits and maneuver them into position to attack people in all kinds of ways. There is an active targeting of individual human beings to bring about misery, to review their karmic hot buttons and points of vulnerability as a way of manipulating them to repeat their worst nightmares and end up worse than ever before. This serves the darkness at the expense of human happiness and progress of the soul. You are here to learn and grow, not flounder and fail. Spirit attachments work to maneuver their host into bad relationships, because they understand what makes people tick and they know if they can make their host miserable it will create turmoil emotionally, and that energy demand it causes, brings in more useful energy for these spirit parasites who can only survive from taking energy away from whomever they possess. At the same time, it serves the extraterrestrials who want to diminish and destroy you, so this is a major mode of softening up humanity, to weaken you and increase your vulnerability. This is why society is currently in such a state of decline, and what you are describing here, about the failure of men and women to come together and start families as an almost universal occupation, is so abnormal. Life becomes, in effect, a dead-end when people do not have an outlet to generate and receive love, both. That is what the darkness wants for your civilization, they want the current human generation to be an "ultimate dead-end" and "final solution" to be done with you.