After the break-up, she was talking on the phone to a friend, and felt a pressure on her chest, and felt her former love was in the room. She felt strong love feelings and that he was hugging her. What was happening?

Unfortunately, this was not because he was in the light and doing outreach to her. It was because there was a kind of close approximation that was arranged to happen by the divine guiding him to think of her, knowing this would draw him to her energy wherever she might be, and to sense it in return. So that is what happened. They maneuvered him to be attracted to your energy and he did sense this strongly and responded with feelings of love, from having been menaced and tormented so horribly, being in limbo, to once again being able to feel you and your presence, even though not in a normal human way with all of the human senses, it was still a reminder of the great love he held for you and it lifted him up. This was instrumental in allowing him to begin to see the love of the light callers and cooperate with them, and, in fact, you were a change agent rescuing him from his dilemma of being trapped in limbo by reconnecting him to love, enough to raise his spirits and literally raised his spirit, in returning to the light to be back home where he belonged, no longer having a body to return to. So, the love feelings were genuine and were coming from him and were, in fact, a portent of good things to come and which had not yet happened, but were in progress at that moment of reconnection. So your strong love for him was a powerful reservoir of healing and just what the doctor ordered to help him with his dilemma.