DWQA QuestionsCategory: Divine GuidanceA viewer asks: “Is it okay or preferred by Creator that pedophiles commit suicide? Or were we just bad people in past lives, so Creator put us in these damaged genetics with perverted cravings so that we can pay our karma with lives of solitude and be hated by all until we die?”
Nicola Staff asked 2 years ago
We do not desire for anyone to take their own life. Under extreme circumstances of severe pain, it may be the lesser of evils to escape the torment but it will always need a kind of rebalancing later on, and the life lesson of the struggle left behind may be uncompleted. That depends on many, many, factors as no two circumstances are identical. We also do not impose penalties and harsh conditions on anyone. It is you who choose your path and you who choose your path to make up for any shortcomings, lost opportunities, or missteps, along the way. It is your karma that replays again and again in succeeding lifetimes until it is healed. This is not intended to be a punishment tour but an opportunity for regaining lost ground and returning to a higher level of being, leaving behind the traits and characteristics and weaknesses that may have been a source of difficulty. It is by shouldering that burden and working on healing and growth that you can surmount such difficulties and come out on top, stronger and better than ever before. It is doing it the hard way, but that is the journey. It is not meant to be easy. And particularly, because of the vulnerability humans have, they will often get into trouble and become corrupted in various ways, sometimes unwittingly, sometimes through carelessness or neglect. But even when victimized in a way that turns a person into a perpetrator, there will be a karmic debt that is owed. That is not our punishment being meted out to make a person suffer, it is a law of the universe, applied evenly to all. Light beings know this and mind their manners, so to speak, to avoid such karmic liabilities. It is much harder as a physical human with the state of disconnection from the divine that exists. Many lose their way and struggle and become embroiled in activities and circumstances that undermine the person and contribute to dragging them further away from a divine alignment. That needs to be the goal here for all pedophiles, a return to divine alignment, and that entails a rebalancing of the being and the entire expression with respect to all interactions with others. Sticking to divine principles to raise up the self with no harm to others, and raise up others with no harm to the self, alone as guidelines, will keep you out of trouble if applied with accuracy and certainty and not as a half measure. This, in the same way, is a path forward for anyone. It is easier to do with healing help because corrupted thinking, especially when it becomes a habit, will be difficult to surmount through acts of will alone. It is hard to stand strong in the face of inner doubts and temptations. The unfortunate thing is, they are not truly satisfying in the end, as the desire leads one to believe, and thus it is a kind of false promise, a siren song to win you over and indulge an unhealthy appetite that does not belong within your being. This is what healing can help with, it will help you to raise your sights and begin a process of strengthening. And this can make all the difference in staying the course while deeper healing works on the corrupted beliefs and desires, so there will be a lessening of temptation, and through avoiding reinforcement, that perspective can wane and finally fade away. This is difficult to do through willpower alone, but impossible without it. The person must want it to happen and that will have a dual benefit, not only in preventing a refueling of the problem through a repetition, but also strengthening the partnership with the divine that is very much needed for someone to go the distance and overcome this kind of problem. Suicide is simply sidestepping the issue and not dealing with it in a meaningful and effective, let alone beneficial, way. That will simply maintain the status quo and even allow a worsening. Such karmic quandaries need deep healing to overcome and if not dealt with in the current life, will likely reoccur in the next life, so a person may never be free of this issue until healing takes place. So why delay that and incur additional karmic burdens from failing to work on the issue? Deciding to help the self and then working at it in partnership with Creator through a healing process that is ongoing, will always help and will make some gains. And even if the entire problem and any awareness of it does not fade entirely during the current life, it will move a person closer to not having a re-experiencing in a subsequent lifetime. That is very worthwhile to work on. Just because it is helping the self does not mean it is selfish or wrong. Every person has a soul that is of tremendous value and that is an obligation as well, to safeguard it, nurture it, and right any wrongs from things that damage the state of being and cause a wounding. This is why there will be karmic consequences, because it is a sacred obligation and duty, it goes with the territory. You can liken this to the law enforcement system because no one escapes reckoning with the Law of Karma except through divine grace, and that as well, often requires some investment in working towards a solution and not surrendering through feelings of hopelessness. There is always a path forward that will lead a person back to divine alignment no matter what has happened, what a person might have done, and the consequences. It is not always easy but that is why it is of value, and special, and important to have made the effort. It will count in your favor regardless of the near-term outcome, and will lead to lasting betterment that will stand for all of time. It is no different than someone falling into a hole and needing to find a way out. No one deserves to be in a hole forever, but people will not simply be rescued because they are in trouble. There must be a request for divine assistance for many kinds of problems, to gain the wherewithal for improvement to happen, especially with those things that are deep in origin and difficult to modify through willpower alone. There are many benefits to the being, in working on overcoming a long-standing and deep difficulty. There is a silver lining here. It will be a tremendous reward in the end from taking it on and seeing it through.