A practitioner asks: “What is plaguing my daughter? Is it a mental illness? Is there something wrong with me? What is my best strategy in this case? I feel totally lost. I cleared her so many times. You worked on her. Others worked on her. I know you cleared her many times, but maybe this time it would be the best time to work on her, since it’s so obvious now. And I need an advice on how to proceed in this situation. I don’t want to be in her presence anymore. But she is my child and I love her and I want to help her. Any input from you and Creator would be very, very, appreciated.” What can we tell her?

This is one of the toughest situations in life to deal with, having love for someone who is becoming incorrigible and the relationship unworkable because the two parties are so very different and there is an inner undermining taking place to sabotage things all along the way. This is what is happening with your daughter. It, in effect, is a kind of mental illness that is the product of a long-standing spirit corruption long before your awareness about such things. It plays into her karmic history as well and that is often a very serious complication and obstacle to obtaining rapid healing. It is simply that, unfortunately, she needs an extensive period of ongoing healing work and karmic repair to undo all that has happened, not only from the difficulties of the current life and the negativity preying on her, but multiple lifetimes of prior turmoil and disappointment. It is the inner struggle from having to wrestle with so much past negativity that makes her prickly and impulsive. She is trying to escape her life, in effect, and that often compounds the problem. When one is unable to maintain a steady course and work steadily to alleviate their suffering and get ahead in life there is always a way forward, however meager, but when one is unsteady and makes rash decisions and accumulates ill will and debt they will run out of friends and their financial history will become a serious obstacle to future stability as well. Although you feel obligated to care for her when things are unworkable, there is no obligation to surrender yourself to the situation and be dragged into her negativity, which you can do little about directly. You are doing the right thing in requesting help from your channel, as his current Protocol has become much more effective working on the karmic issues people struggle with. That is not to say you can expect a quick turnaround here. This is likely to be a lifelong healing problem. Getting it underway more thoroughly is the key, and this your channel will provide. Even if it takes the entirety of her life to make progress, it will be well worth the effort because these problems will almost certainly resume in her next incarnation, so the investment in healing will be more to benefit her next life than the current one. Sometimes difficult people benefit more from being on their own and having to face the dispassionate and evenhanded treatment of those around them who will not put up with irregularities and unpleasantness, than to stay with a loving parent who will shield them, support them, and tolerate even abuse because of the bonds of love. This is sometimes termed as being “tough love.” We do not like that designation, but it helps people to understand those particular situations where people need to set boundaries in terms of what they will give another and what they will tolerate in exchange. You will understandably suffer with the situation as it is, but there is not much you can do. So you can choose to let this preoccupy you and hold you back, or move forward as best you can to help yourself now. She needs to be in the hands of the divine and this you have arranged. We will be working on this steadily from here on out.