A practitioner asks: “My mom passed away on Saturday. We buried her yesterday. She leaves behind a VERY troubled legacy with her children and grandchildren. I won't go into the details, but it was a pretty scary, unsettling life experience with her, for ALL of us, right up to the end. My birth family is shattered, and irretrievably damaged, though I have been working on the healing of all of us for years now, my wires are REALLY scrambled and I can't tell if she is home safely in the arms of Love yet, or not. For once, I'm really not able to tell. It's almost like I'm still too upset about her relationship with us to be able to see clearly. My siblings want her to spend the rest of her eternal life in purgatory (or worse), for all she did to our family, but I keep trying to tell them that we need to pray for her healing, that it is not helpful to wish that on ANYONE, because it will always come back to bite US. Could you please check on her when you have the time? And let me know if she knows that I really did try to help her as much as I could? I just want her to be safe and home in the place where she can be healed, so she can join US in our healing work.” Is she safely in the light? Does she have a message for her daughter?

DWQA Questions › Category: Human Light Beings › A practitioner asks: “My mom passed away on Saturday. We buried her yesterday. She leaves behind a VERY troubled legacy with her children and grandchildren. I won’t go into the details, but it was a pretty scary, unsettling life experience with her, for ALL of us, right up to the end. My birth family is shattered, and irretrievably damaged, though I have been working on the healing of all of us for years now, my wires are REALLY scrambled and I can’t tell if she is home safely in the arms of Love yet, or not. For once, I’m really not able to tell. It’s almost like I’m still too upset about her relationship with us to be able to see clearly. My siblings want her to spend the rest of her eternal life in purgatory (or worse), for all she did to our family, but I keep trying to tell them that we need to pray for her healing, that it is not helpful to wish that on ANYONE, because it will always come back to bite US. Could you please check on her when you have the time? And let me know if she knows that I really did try to help her as much as I could? I just want her to be safe and home in the place where she can be healed, so she can join US in our healing work.” Is she safely in the light? Does she have a message for her daughter?

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Nicola Staff asked 2 years ago

She is safely in the light, and is here with us now. She wants you to truly know, that from her new vantage point as her true self, she sees you and all you mean to her, and all of who you are, in a way she was unable to appreciate while living. That was because of her inner torment and the distortions of thinking she developed over time that more and more limited her ability to appreciate others, and to see them as more a hindrance than a help, more negative than a positive. She knows now how that came to be and how misguided her thinking was. It really constrained her ability to love and she wants you to know you have all of her love now, and she will be shining that on you from now on, with gratitude and appreciation for all you have done for her, not least, helping her in her time of greatest need during the lead-up to her transition and to help see it through successfully. As you know, many, many, souls do not make a return to the light. She hopes to be of service for you now just in the way you are thinking of things, and having her as an ally and compatriot, and no longer a burden.