Filter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesA viewer writes: “My mom called to tell me that she’s having a party with my niece, nephew, his new wife (she’s pregnant) nephew’s mom and brother, and my brother. She didn’t call to invite me, she called to give me a heads up in case I find out about it without her telling me first. Okay, that was weird, but I’m kind of used to my mom and my brother not letting me participate, that’s been a lifelong thing. For Mother’s Day, my husband’s two sisters, his daughter and his niece, and his mother all got together but went to great lengths to make sure I would not find out about it except I did. I think everyone’s either embarrassed or they don’t care enough to comment on it. These are the people I have gone to great lengths to help, each and every one of them, without giving it a second thought. I’m just wondering, am I really that off-putting, disgusting, is there something about me that makes people recoil?” What can we tell her?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control257 views0 answers0 votesIs she being targeted by the interlopers to have her be discounted and excluded by her family?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control257 views0 answers0 votesShe asks: “Maybe it’s just time to move on and see what’s out there in the world. My husband does nothing to make me feel included. He’s basically zoned out and doesn’t notice anything even when I mention it over and over. Yeah, he’s completely checked out. He claims he loves me and he does many nice things for me but emotionally there’s no one home. Should I start thinking about moving on? Is it time to go? It’s hard to stay in a place where you feel invisible. I mean both families? How can that be a coincidence? Is there something Creator can say to bring light to my very sad and confusing situation?” What can we tell her?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control228 views0 answers0 votesShe asks: “When I was very little, I used to think how great it would be if I had, I don’t know, intuitive knowings, see things others can’t, know things others don’t, understand the nature of this world in a way that most don’t take the time to think about. I thought those things would be cool. Turns out they’re not. Turns out they’re horrible. Turns out it makes for a terrible time trying to blend in with those around me. I don’t mean to sound conceited. I’m not saying I’m all that, I’m not, but I’m not the same either. I’m different, and I hate that because It’s getting harder and harder to fake it and pretend I don’t notice what I noticed, and pretend that I’m not who I am, if that even makes sense. I don’t even know how to “turn it off.” I am feeling like such a weirdo. Will I ever fit in anywhere? I have the best intentions. I don’t have hidden agendas. I really want everybody to make it and I’m genuinely happy when good things happen to other people. Why does it have to be so hard?” What can we tell her?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control265 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks about the value of monoatomic gold, also called ORMUS gold. Is it a superconductor for our electromagnetic field? Will it elevate consciousness and create spiritual balance and harmony?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Healing Modalities233 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Today there appeared a scratch that extended from my son’s eye to the back of his neck. Are my son and I being abducted recently? If this is the case, are we divinely protected?”ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Abductions251 views0 answers0 votesIn what ways is channeling one’s deep subconscious different than channeling the higher self, or other beings in the divine realm?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling242 views0 answers0 votesIn addition to probing with our recommended questions to learn about problems the deep subconscious is facing, and the limiting beliefs and diminished soul attributes which resulted, what other things of value can be probed when channeling the deep subconscious?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling185 views0 answers0 votesIs it helpful to request the help of the deep subconscious to work actively with the higher self and Creator by requesting assistance as needed?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling188 views0 answers0 votesIs it realistic and advisable to ask when channeling the deep subconscious to protect itself from outside intrusions? If so, what is the most effective way to do so?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling198 views0 answers0 votesMonica Raymond said, “Little white lies are part of everyday life. If you’re in court being charged with a felony, you’re probably going to be tempted to lie. Or if your girlfriend asks you if the sweater she is wearing makes her look fat; you’re going to lie because you love that person. There are different reasons and justifications to lie; it’s human nature.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance204 views0 answers0 votesPamela Meyer said, “White lies keep social dignity intact and are far more prevalent than most people realize. Several studies have found that an average person is lied to from 10 to 200 times a day – mostly just to keep a conversation going, to avoid conflict, or to establish a connection with someone.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance219 views0 answers0 votesBarry Ritholz said, “Little white lies are told by humans all the time. Indeed, lying is often how we get through each day in a happy little bubble. We spend time and energy rationalizing our own behaviors, beliefs, and decision-making processes.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance204 views0 answers0 votesDale Carnegie wrote the multi-million bestseller, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Advocates would say that Carnegie taught a method of manipulating people that created “win-win” scenarios, where both the manipulated and manipulators benefited. The detractors would say Carnegie’s methods can be used to screw people. Any kind of indirect manipulation is problematic, as it arguably violates free will, especially if used to encourage “uninformed” decisions. Hypnotist and Researcher Dick Sutphen wrote of Carnegie in his book, Radical Spirituality, “The Carnegie Course teaches you to say what will work to get what you want. Isn’t that being phony or a hypocrite? Forget sincerity, forget honesty. Forget being real. Carnegie teaches you to be a diplomat and wear a mask. Masks are the fear that who and what you are isn’t adequate, so you pretend to be somebody else.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance211 views0 answers0 votesSutphen, additionally, said this about Carnegie techniques, “If you use Carnegie techniques to win friends, the friendship has to be based upon a two-way manipulation. You pretend to be the mask to attain friendship and they will be your friend as long as you wear it. What happens when your mask slips and they find out who you really are? Do you need any relationship or association so badly that you’re willing to repress your real self in order to attain it?” Many would answer YES – they have a mortgage to pay, and must wear the mask in order to stay employed. Sutphen was an independent businessman and had more freedom in that regard. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance217 views0 answers0 votes