DWQA Questions › Tag: low self-esteemFilter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesFinding your soulmate, your better half, the partner of your dreams, has never been easy. But lately, it seems to have become exponentially harder than ever before. It is believed that fully half of single men have given up on dating and courting women altogether. There is even a mass movement of men known as MGTOW (mig-tao) or “Men Going Their Own Way.” Critics call this movement “male supremacy,” and hateful of women, but members would dispute that and counter that modern relationships with women are downright dangerous for men—dangerous enough to warrant complete withdrawal and avoidance of any and all non-professional involvement with women. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society178 views0 answers0 votesSomething as simple as holding a door open for a woman has suddenly become an uncertain endeavor that could just as easily elicit condemnation and accusations of bigotry and misogyny as it does a smile and warm “thank you.” As a result, many, if not by now most, men have given up on the practice altogether, leaving a great many more traditional women confused and even angry. So it’s become almost a catch-22 situation. Damned if you do, and damned if you don’t. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society167 views0 answers0 votesThe advent of the Internet, and the more recent widespread adoption of smartphones, has really changed the dating scene, and most men and women would agree it’s not for the better. A recent experiment had a male set up an attractive female profile, and it generated 20,000 matches in a just a few hours. A similar reverse experiment set up by a female thinking she could prove there was a level playing field, generated only a few dozen matches to the male profile she created, in the span of an entire month, and none of those turned into an actual date. The female experimenter reported feeling completely dejected by the (for her) shocking outcome of the experiment. Women are overwhelmed with attention, and men largely report feeling almost completely invisible. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society156 views0 answers0 votesIn New York City, it has been observed that dating apps have enabled many women to establish different kinds of categories for men interested in them. A study reported in the New York Post revealed that 33% of women confessed to going on dates just to get “free food.” They even have a term for it, namely, a “foodie call.” Some women have a full address book of men they can call not only for free food but free home repairs, car repairs, shopping trips, travel, you name it. The women have zero intention of ever getting romantically involved with any of these men. All of these men are in the dreaded “friend zone.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society156 views0 answers0 votesSixty percent of college graduates today are women. Women are increasingly filling managerial roles and displacing men in numerous professional occupations such as law and medicine. Men, by and large, have no issues “dating down” and entering relationships with women who earn much less than they do, and who are even unemployed altogether. Whereas, the opposite is almost never true for successful women. Overwhelmingly, they hold out and say yes only to men who make as much or preferably more than they do, who are taller than they are (or at least not shorter), and more “successful and worldly,” however they might personally define that. The result is that more and more women are chasing fewer and fewer “qualified” men. They are literally pricing themselves out of the dating market. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society153 views0 answers0 votesThe dating scene is especially problematic, and even deeply traumatic, for single mothers of all ages. With the divorce rate above 50%, along with the huge number of births happening out of wedlock, it’s reaching the point where more children are being raised by single mothers than are being raised by married cohabiting biological parents. Overwhelmingly, most single men, and more often than that, the more desirable single men, want nothing to do with a single mother. Men, by and large, would rather not raise another man’s children and need to be really incentivized to do so. This is a problem that just seems to keep getting worse, not better. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society162 views0 answers0 votesWe’ve already probed the problem of dating for successful women, but it’s especially difficult for older successful women (and older women in general). This is so because the majority of successful and compatible men their own age are either already in successful relationships or choose to date much younger (and therefore more attractive) women, sometimes decades younger. As a result, many of these older single women are desperately lonely and find themselves making do as best they can with women friends and even pets. The stereotype of the single cat lady is on point. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society161 views0 answers0 votesAnd if things weren’t bad enough, there is the problem of the “alpha male” most women find attractive—tall, dark and handsome, confident and wealthy. Except it seems a great many women misconstrue genuine narcissism for confidence. The result is that the “qualified guy” many modern women are chasing, holding out for, and compromising themselves for, turns out to be an abusive “bad boy” who ultimately treats them inconsiderately, cheats on them with other women, and even abuses them. From his perspective, he has almost endless numbers of attractive women literally lining up and competing for him, so he has little incentive to treat any of them as special. This composite character even has a name, specifically, “Chad Chaddington.” Chad might literally date more than one woman in the same evening, sleep with most on the first date, and never consider committing to anyone. As a result, he leaves in his wake scores of “alpha widows” who can never get over being spurned by Chad and who therefore have a hard time finding any other “beta” men attractive. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society169 views0 answers0 votesFinally, in their desperation, women turn mostly to each other for support. There are the curious phenomena of female dating coaches and Internet influencers who themselves have been unsuccessful having romantic relationships with men. What results is a kind of echo chamber where women share their pain with each other, and it often convinces them that men are simply rotten, and to double down and not lower their standards. So they often end up even more choosy, rather than less, making their odds of ever finding a successful partner even more remote. Meanwhile, most men, and many good ones, remain utterly invisible to them. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society194 views0 answers0 votesWhat is perfectly clear is that the modern dating scene presents a simply massive healing need for both men and women alike. Can Creator share with us how Empowered Prayer, the Lightworker Healing Protocol, Deep Subconscious Memory Reset, and Divine Life Support are the most effective means of truly improving the odds for both sexes in finding and maintaining a successful, long-term, rewarding romantic relationship?ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Problems in Society175 views0 answers0 votesThe viewer asks: “Can Source Creator please give us guidance on how to maintain strong boundaries with narcissists? They keep showing up in my life! I interpret this as my negative karma from previous lifetimes with my current father and mother.”ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • Karma156 views0 answers0 votesDestructive habitual thought patterns and mindsets are commonplace, such as defeatism, shyness, low self-esteem, aggressiveness, hostility, arrogance, and egotism, and these are reinforced with many misguided and self-limiting beliefs stored within cellular memory. Negative characteristics such as this, often seen as personality traits, have much to do with impaired progress and success in school, in establishing and advancing a career, and maintaining healthy interpersonal and love relationships. Is it true that cellular consciousness becomes a part of the personality through its experience and influence?ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • Karma411 views0 answers0 votesWe know that all humans are subject to interloper mind control manipulation. And that such manipulation takes advantage of anxiety and passion for much if not most of its emotive power. So it seems the Vulcan pursuit of emotional control was an attempt to gain mastery of the very features of the self that the interlopers take full advantage of in humans, essentially depriving the interlopers of this influence over the individual. How much does mastery of one’s emotional nature and passions, and the ability to successfully cope with and neutralize traumas, protect or even make one immune to mind control manipulation?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Extraterrestrial Interlopers333 views0 answers0 votesThe desire to be rid of all emotion can only have its genesis in deep trauma—trauma so deep and pronounced that even love is suspect and untrusted to the extent it is thought best to dispense with it altogether. Obviously, this is a trap, and while Vulcans are depicted as good and generous, we know lovelessness can only lead to depravity. So as appealing to logic as this logic may seem, the abandonment of love can only be regarded as the highest of follies and the gravest of errors. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Extraterrestrial Interlopers324 views0 answers0 votesA client asks: “How do I escape the relentless interference and messing about that the spirit meddlers subject me to, I have been doing the LHP now almost every day for nearly a year and Creators Prayers for even longer, which has made no difference that I am aware of, I AM GETTING FED UP WITH THE CONSTANT INTERFERENCE, I want to be free of this nonsense that they keep feeding me with, for heavens sake 70 years is long enough, when will it end?” What can we do for him, and what can we tell him?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Spirit Meddlers322 views0 answers0 votes