DWQA Questions › Tag: limiting beliefsFilter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesA viewer writes: “My mom called to tell me that she’s having a party with my niece, nephew, his new wife (she’s pregnant) nephew’s mom and brother, and my brother. She didn’t call to invite me, she called to give me a heads up in case I find out about it without her telling me first. Okay, that was weird, but I’m kind of used to my mom and my brother not letting me participate, that’s been a lifelong thing. For Mother’s Day, my husband’s two sisters, his daughter and his niece, and his mother all got together but went to great lengths to make sure I would not find out about it except I did. I think everyone’s either embarrassed or they don’t care enough to comment on it. These are the people I have gone to great lengths to help, each and every one of them, without giving it a second thought. I’m just wondering, am I really that off-putting, disgusting, is there something about me that makes people recoil?” What can we tell her?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control266 views0 answers0 votesIs she being targeted by the interlopers to have her be discounted and excluded by her family?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control269 views0 answers0 votesShe asks: “Maybe it’s just time to move on and see what’s out there in the world. My husband does nothing to make me feel included. He’s basically zoned out and doesn’t notice anything even when I mention it over and over. Yeah, he’s completely checked out. He claims he loves me and he does many nice things for me but emotionally there’s no one home. Should I start thinking about moving on? Is it time to go? It’s hard to stay in a place where you feel invisible. I mean both families? How can that be a coincidence? Is there something Creator can say to bring light to my very sad and confusing situation?” What can we tell her?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control239 views0 answers0 votesShe asks: “When I was very little, I used to think how great it would be if I had, I don’t know, intuitive knowings, see things others can’t, know things others don’t, understand the nature of this world in a way that most don’t take the time to think about. I thought those things would be cool. Turns out they’re not. Turns out they’re horrible. Turns out it makes for a terrible time trying to blend in with those around me. I don’t mean to sound conceited. I’m not saying I’m all that, I’m not, but I’m not the same either. I’m different, and I hate that because It’s getting harder and harder to fake it and pretend I don’t notice what I noticed, and pretend that I’m not who I am, if that even makes sense. I don’t even know how to “turn it off.” I am feeling like such a weirdo. Will I ever fit in anywhere? I have the best intentions. I don’t have hidden agendas. I really want everybody to make it and I’m genuinely happy when good things happen to other people. Why does it have to be so hard?” What can we tell her?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Extraterrestrial Mind Control291 views0 answers0 votesIn addition to probing with our recommended questions to learn about problems the deep subconscious is facing, and the limiting beliefs and diminished soul attributes which resulted, what other things of value can be probed when channeling the deep subconscious?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling194 views0 answers0 votesIs it helpful to request the help of the deep subconscious to work actively with the higher self and Creator by requesting assistance as needed?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling198 views0 answers0 votesIs it realistic and advisable to ask when channeling the deep subconscious to protect itself from outside intrusions? If so, what is the most effective way to do so?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Subconscious Channeling206 views0 answers0 votesBarry Ritholz said, “Little white lies are told by humans all the time. Indeed, lying is often how we get through each day in a happy little bubble. We spend time and energy rationalizing our own behaviors, beliefs, and decision-making processes.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance211 views0 answers0 votesDale Carnegie wrote the multi-million bestseller, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Advocates would say that Carnegie taught a method of manipulating people that created “win-win” scenarios, where both the manipulated and manipulators benefited. The detractors would say Carnegie’s methods can be used to screw people. Any kind of indirect manipulation is problematic, as it arguably violates free will, especially if used to encourage “uninformed” decisions. Hypnotist and Researcher Dick Sutphen wrote of Carnegie in his book, Radical Spirituality, “The Carnegie Course teaches you to say what will work to get what you want. Isn’t that being phony or a hypocrite? Forget sincerity, forget honesty. Forget being real. Carnegie teaches you to be a diplomat and wear a mask. Masks are the fear that who and what you are isn’t adequate, so you pretend to be somebody else.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance219 views0 answers0 votesSutphen, additionally, said this about Carnegie techniques, “If you use Carnegie techniques to win friends, the friendship has to be based upon a two-way manipulation. You pretend to be the mask to attain friendship and they will be your friend as long as you wear it. What happens when your mask slips and they find out who you really are? Do you need any relationship or association so badly that you’re willing to repress your real self in order to attain it?” Many would answer YES – they have a mortgage to pay, and must wear the mask in order to stay employed. Sutphen was an independent businessman and had more freedom in that regard. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance231 views0 answers0 votesDr. Viktor Frankl wrote that in his opinion, it was possible to “lie with the truth.” He cited as an example a man who came to him plagued with guilt about an illicit affair he had some 20 years earlier. His wife never learned of it and was still ignorant of it when he sought Frankl’s advice. Dr. Frankl implored him NOT to tell her. His reason for doing so was because he believed that the man truly loved his wife and had no desire to traumatize her. Based on what he knew of the man’s wife, he was convinced that there was little to no chance of the wife receiving the news without drawing the false conclusion that he did not love her, and consequently would not be able to forgive him. So he attempted to coach the man, that telling her the truth, would be akin to lying, for it would encourage her to believe a lie—that her husband did not ever love her. The man ignored Frankl’s advice, and the result was an ugly divorce with both parties deeply emotionally traumatized. Was Frankl right? What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance275 views0 answers0 votesDick Sutphen in his book, Radical Spirituality, listed 69 reminders and asserted they were the only Bible anyone needed. Number 50 was, “Refuse to make choice based upon the expectations of others. Instead, act in ways consistent with your purpose.” Out of the 69 reminders, this one, if followed uncritically, could cause a great deal of trouble for a person in this world. Sometimes, not telling someone, like an authority figure, what they want or expect to hear, could be quite problematic. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance217 views0 answers0 votes“Informed consent” is obviously important to most people, and a fundamentally fair way to manage human affairs. Yet, in the realm of remote healing, it is possible to heal or attempt to heal someone without their knowledge, which would render moot any notion of their consent. Isn’t that dishonest? Can Creator tell us if Empowered Prayer and the Lightworker Healing Protocol are exempt from that concern, and if so, why?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Divine Guidance267 views0 answers0 votesDoes the emphasis of Compassion Key on using leading suggestions that evoke negative emotions (e.g., “I’m so sorry you’re sad, I’m so sorry you were rejected, I’m so sorry you’re afraid you’ll fail…”) help people connect usefully with past traumatic events, or is this a trade-off in terms of possibly promoting re-live of the trauma?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Healing Modalities202 views0 answers0 votesDoes the high level of emotionality that Compassion Key encourages, actually have a danger of stirring up old karmic business that would otherwise remain dormant, and which it might not heal effectively?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Healing Modalities174 views0 answers0 votes
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