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The human need for helpers is almost inexhaustible. The daily grind of life necessitates that countless mundane roles and jobs get done in order for society to function at all. The family, as a microcosm of society, has the same non-negotiable needs that are not glamorous or exciting. Humanity NEEDS a significant cadre, a significant large percentage of its population to be engaged in meeting these needs at all times. If no one could ever find satisfaction and fulfillment in meeting these drab but all-important requirements, society could simply not function at all. It appears the advent of the helper type was dictated by imperative need. As a result, there are likely more helpers than any other role. It appears nearly one-third of all humanity are helpers. What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 9 months ago • 
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The role of mother is more akin to the role of helper than any other attribute type. Though all souls will experience motherhood, frequently and profoundly, the nurturing role of mother is particularly suited to the helper type. Therefore it would make sense that helpers would prefer to be female more often than not. This would help to explain perhaps why the female gender, as a whole, so closely resembles the helper type as a whole. The two roles are profoundly reinforcing of each other. If the majority (or significant percentage) of women are helpers, and the majority (or significant percentage) of helpers are women, that would really help to make sense of what seems to be readily observable. It seems helpers would make awesome grandmothers. What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 9 months ago • 
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Because helpers are so focused on the happiness and well-being of those around them, it would make sense that would likely be more conservative and risk-averse than perhaps any other role. This would also perhaps make them more susceptible to experience anxiety about the health, happiness, and welfare of those close to them. Is the stereotypical “worry wart” likely a helper? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 9 months ago • 
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It was mentioned in the last show on soul attributes, that it’s not the attribute itself that is problematic, but how it is expressed. In evaluating the helper, it’s easy to see how their focus on the welfare of those around them can manifest in a positive way. But how can it manifest negatively? How can a helper be corrupted and even engage in and become “evil,” perhaps by imposing their more conservative standards and risk-aversion on others forcefully, such as the overbearing mother who limits the freedom of her children to a stultifying degree, to keep them safe, or perhaps in trying to manipulate others by performing unrequested and unneeded tasks in order to ingratiate, and then claiming “they had no choice” when confronted? Is the helper prone to being a martyr, working themselves to death, and then complaining about it incessantly? Were helpers more often than not the dreaded snitches in World War II sending “dangerous enemies” to the government for help? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 9 months ago • 
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It needs to be re-emphasized, that these roles have nothing to do with intelligence. Most doctors (or a significant percentage) and veterinarians are helpers, occupations that require great intelligence. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 9 months ago • 
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It would seem helper types are not good at being alone for long stretches. As cruel as solitary confinement is, it might be the most cruel to do that to a helper. Helpers have a need to be around people and even animals. Yet, are also often aware of their shortcomings as not being as gabby as orators, or as entertaining and interesting as artists, athletes, researchers, etc. This would fuel their desire to be “useful” and be the ones walking around with the coffee pot asking if anyone wants a refill (when all their cups were already full!). What advice can Creator give to others on how to best understand, value, and reward the helper types in their lives without compromising their own needs and wants, and not coming up short in the process?
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