DWQA Questions › Tag: habitsFilter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesThere was a young man in his youth who suffered more than his fair share of tragedy. He had two siblings die in childhood, and a third disappear after running away and becoming homeless. He lived at home with his parents well into his middle-aged adulthood and worked a modest low-paying job as a hospital orderly. Yet, he saved enough money to buy a new high-end muscle car that was a favorite with collectors. The enigmatic thing was that he would spend up to two hours every day washing and detailing the vehicle. Can Creator share what purpose this behavior served for this individual, as the car certainly did not require daily washing?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma299 views0 answers0 votesAn outwardly successful business owner, who was also a black belt martial artist and powerfully built, and who carried himself as if nothing in the universe could possibly frighten him, turned out to have an inordinate fear of water. So much so, that when invited to a pool party with an above-ground pool only five feet deep, and with him being over six feet tall, he still would not go in the water, but was observed to keep himself well away from the pool’s edge. What can account for this man’s deep-seated phobia of water?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma292 views0 answers0 votesThere is a martial artist who has six black belts in six different disciplines. Once when asked “why,” he replied, “others golf, this is what I do.” But another time he was overheard complaining after practicing with weapons (wooden swords and knives) that he simply couldn’t stand “being vulnerable” as he put it. This from a man with six black belts. Can Creator share what trauma has clearly fueled this man’s lifelong obsession with self-defense?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma286 views0 answers0 votesSaving money is wise, more often than not. But when it becomes an obsession, it can result in a number of issues. Hoarding is one of them. Some people will buy an endless string of used goods if they are cheap, but whether the item purchased is even needed or useful, is a secondary concern. To the extent that such a person is convinced that saving money is good, arguments advocating moderation seem to fall on deaf ears. Can Creator comment?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma307 views0 answers0 votesSpouses throughout the ages have noted that they are rarely listened to. A spouse might observe that a window where a spouse is trying to grow some starter plants lacks sufficient sunlight, but is utterly and even violently ignored. But when a neighbor who is anything but a botanist points out the same thing, the plants get moved right away. Even though people have more mobility today, we seem to be isolated more than ever. People have fewer and fewer non-family guests than ever before. Common sense appears to need common inputs from multiple people. Does excessive privacy and isolation impair common sense?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma302 views0 answers0 votesWe know that the deep subconscious communicates through emotion and that it falls to the conscious mind to decide what it means and act accordingly. In lucid moments, people enslaved to irrational behaviors will even admit that they themselves see the irrationality, but “cannot help themselves.” Clearly, there is a healing need here in terms of removing underlying past and parallel life trauma that is fueling the emotion leading to the irrational behavior, but beliefs are also in play. In addition to healing the trauma, do the beliefs have to be dealt with as well?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma305 views0 answers0 votesThe problem with everyday irrational behavior, especially when there are agendas working at cross purposes, is that it can lead to even bigger problems if left unchecked—perhaps even resulting in trauma worse than the original insult creating the behavior to begin with. As an example, perhaps the spouse wakes up one day, decides they have had enough, and ends the marriage. How can people realize they have to push back against their own irrationality (and not wait for others to do it)?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma311 views0 answers0 votesPushing back against one’s own emotions and habits is usually countered by the deep subconscious with even more intense emotion and anxiety. Marshalling inner strength seems an almost inexplicable outcome of excessive irrational behavior. At what point does the deep subconscious finally relent and ease off in response to a newly determined self, no longer willing to accept such emotions uncritically? Is it simply a bigger trauma overwhelming a smaller one, or is it the long-in-coming birth of wisdom?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma311 views0 answers0 votesHitting rock bottom is the hard way to overcome everyday irrationality. Can Creator share how prayer work and the Lightworker Healing Protocol provide an easier way to resolve our not so benign idiosyncrasies?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Karma315 views0 answers0 votesIn a recent channeling on the topic of intention, Creator said: “This is a complex subject with many intricacies but quite worth exploring because you are seeing the levers that make things happen.” The answer is both exciting and daunting at the same time. Since so many people feel so powerless and helpless these days, can Creator share how exploring this topic of intention can really help them acquire the mental tools they need to both find and engage those “levers that make things happen” successfully?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Limiting Beliefs316 views0 answers0 votesPrayer is mostly thought of as a religious notion. But in fact, isn’t it really just exercising the mind to shape and launch intentions targeted at an aspect of ourselves whose charter is to fulfill those intentions? Would it be helpful to think of the divine realm and even God as extensions of our own mind? In the same way we conceive of having a subconscious that serves us, and frustrates us at times, isn’t God serving a similar role, and is every bit as real and connected to us as our own subconscious is, a part of us?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Limiting Beliefs307 views0 answers0 votesWould it be helpful to think of learning the art of “intention shaping and energizing,” or prayer, in the same way a quadriplegic needs to acquire a whole set of otherwise unneeded skills to live a life everyone else takes for granted? We have been compromised and debilitated and disabled mentally by the interlopers almost to the same degree a quadriplegic is physically disabled. In other words, are we as mentally disabled compared to our light being selves, as a quadriplegic is to their pre-injury physical selves? And would we be served by looking to those who overcome such adversities for inspiration?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Limiting Beliefs289 views0 answers0 votesCreator has talked about needing enough human intention in order to intervene successfully in human affairs. But it seems we’re being asked to fill a swimming pool one cup of water, or one prayer, at a time, without even being able to see the progress we are making. Is there any way we can trade the cup for a bucket, or the bucket for a hose?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Limiting Beliefs346 views0 answers0 votesIf intention is the raw material, is faith the glue that holds it all together and transforms it into something useful?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Limiting Beliefs324 views0 answers0 votesWikipedia says: “Intention is a mental state that represents a commitment to carrying out an action or actions in the future.” Intention seems to be the motive power of the mind, the driving force that is building the future. Can Creator share the nature of this mental state?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Limiting Beliefs317 views0 answers0 votes
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