DWQA Questions › Tag: coping strategies
Filter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnanswered
A viewer asks: “Would it be better for my longer coated dogs (I have border collies) to be shaved in the summer? I think they would not like it and some say that it can be kind of like an insulation layer that helps insulate from heat. My unshorn adult dog seems quite comfortable in winter and summer, and same with my last one.” What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 2 months ago • 
45 views0 answers0 votes
A practitioner asks: “My 33-year-old daughter has had trouble in her romantic relationships over the years. She is a scientist by trade and appears successful except in her wanting a relationship and to have her own children. She has been brought up in the Catholic faith but sometimes now seems to waiver in belief. Is this due to her scientific training and now leaning on a therapist to work through issues? I have included her in several Lightworker Healing Protocol sessions conducted but she appears to be still stuck in her same routines. Is there anything else we can do for her to break through her dilemmas?”
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
153 views0 answers0 votes
A practitioner asks: “Will the Lightworker Healing Protocol be enough to heal my teen son from his pill addiction and self-medicating? I’ve done many LHP’s for my children in general and for him individually. He seemed to be doing better and turning a corner but I was in shock when recently we woke up one morning to find he was acting drunk with slurring and disorientation, which I found later was from illegal Xanax pills he took. He is not amenable to counseling or therapy. Shall I apply more protocols in a concentrated fashion? He is failing school but recently got a job he likes and we regularly go to the gym together. I thought more activity would be helpful. What else can I do for him?”
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
240 views0 answers0 votes
Parents and teachers are confronted with this art of living dilemma on practically a daily basis. There is probably not a child in existence who hasn’t screamed at an adult at least once “let me do it!!!” But of course, adults cannot let children go ahead and do just anything they want without supervision. Too much supervision is stultifying, and too little exposes the vulnerable to enhanced dangers. Can Creator share any rules of thumb that will help supervisors intervene only when necessary and with maximum divine balance and wisdom?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
290 views0 answers0 votes
In Texas a few years ago, a young man who had learned a few tentative Aikido moves (a martial art), found himself in a convenience store just as it was being robbed. Rather than stay out of it, he intervened and used his fledgling skills to execute a shihonage (she-ho-nah-gay) move. The result was the robber fell backwards having lost all balance and cracked his skull on the tile floor, dying moments later. Can Creator comment on the karmic consequences of his decision, and whether the divine considers his actions intervention or interference?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
318 views0 answers0 votes
A massively popular recording artist witnessed the drowning of a friend as a child. An older teenager was there as well, and this person just stood there and watched, and did nothing beyond saying “hold on.” The artist came to blame this person for the drowning death of his friend because he chose not to intervene. Decades later, the recording artist wrote a song recounting the event, invited the now much older adult but then-teenager to the song’s premiere in front of an audience of thousands, seating him in the center front row. He then sang the song that went on to become one of this recording artist’s biggest hits, mocking the man with his own words “hold on.” The man went home and hanged himself as a result of the shaming. What is Creator’s perspective of both the teen’s inaction and the later retribution by the recording artist?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
334 views0 answers0 votes
It’s rare when parents perfectly share the most enlightened approach to raising children. Not only do they have to navigate the relationship with their own child, but often find themselves witnesses to the unhealthy relationships between their child and the other parent. Intervening in these relationships is fraught with all kinds of hazards up to and including divorce and custody battles. When a spouse is confronted with a spouse whose parenting skills leave something to be desired, and are rooted in deeply held beliefs they are in no mood to have questioned, yet clearly are problematic and perhaps even damaging to the children, what is Creator’s advice for a parent simply wanting the best outcome for all involved?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
327 views0 answers0 votes
Asking a stranger or acquaintance out on a date is arguably a form of “uninvited intervention” bordering on interference. Yet, for much of history, men were encouraged to pursue this “outreach” and women were encouraged, and even coached, to be tolerant, even to an extreme at times. That is all changing now with today’s young people. Even approaching the opposite extreme of considering even a single humble proposition, a form of “violent assault.” Can Creator comment?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
319 views0 answers0 votes
There is a story of a seeker who approached a guru asking to take up advanced spiritual training with enlightenment as the goal. The guru said, “we must first test your readiness.” The guru then handed the applicant three humungous baked potatoes and instructed him to eat them right away. The problem was, the applicant, anticipating a life devoid of luxuries, had just come from a goodbye feast where he had already stuffed himself to the brim. Alone, staring at the potatoes and knowing he could not possibly eat them in the time expected, saw a homeless man off in the distance. He approached the homeless man and offered him the biggest potato. The homeless man accepted, and the applicant then choked down the other two. Returning to the guru, the guru asked if he had indeed consumed all three potatoes. The applicant hesitated for a moment and then confessed what he had done with the biggest potato. He then challenged the guru about the virtue of charity, and does that not override the demands of the test? The guru responded with the question “Did the homeless man ASK YOU for the potato?” Upon saying “no,” the guru rejected the applicant, and claimed he was not ready for advanced training. What is Creator’s perspective of this story?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
332 views0 answers0 votes
There is a popular notion that one should never give advice unless asked for it. A high school student who worked in a repair garage evenings and weekends was in an auto shop class and instructed to do an oil change with a small group of fellow students. One of the bigger more aggressive students started removing the drain plug. The experienced student suggested that he not pull the plug away but hold it in place until he was sure it was loose, and then pull it away quickly. The intended and very over-confident recipient of this wise advice told the experienced student to “buzz off” in so many words, and then proceeded to cover himself in oil with the other students howling with laughter. What is Creator’s perspective on giving unsolicited advice?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
292 views0 answers0 votes
Can Creator share how prayer work and the Lightworker Healing Protocol can help individuals master the “intervene or not to intervene” art of living dilemma, and how such mastery is critical to the survival of humanity?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
290 views0 answers0 votes
Is genuine self-confidence really a certainty about the invulnerability of one’s being, one’s consciousness, one’s mind? It is clear that there is a widespread belief that the mind is not only vulnerable but fragile. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
355 views0 answers0 votes
Can Creator share how prayer work and the Lightworker Healing Protocol can heal anxiety and doubt, and foster genuine, “divine” self-confidence?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
611 views0 answers0 votes
How much do people equate consensus with safety? How much do tragic events in past lives contribute to an overwhelming need to seek acceptance from a majority or powerful minority?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
320 views0 answers0 votes