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A viewer asks: “How do we keep children, who don’t like to be physically active, interested in things outside since many children today are not involved in farming, fishing, chopping wood for use in a fire, etc? Children who do like to be active, have tons of sports…and other activities to keep them going 24/7, such as amusement parks or activity centers with cycling, climbing, swimming, the list goes on. What about all the children who don’t like any of this? The ones who probably would have loved to be more practical with hands-on tasks, getting mucky and dirty, splashing about for no other reason than to be doing it? How do we find things for them to do in today’s world?” What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • 
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A viewer writes: “My mom called to tell me that she’s having a party with my niece, nephew, his new wife (she’s pregnant) nephew’s mom and brother, and my brother. She didn’t call to invite me, she called to give me a heads up in case I find out about it without her telling me first. Okay, that was weird, but I’m kind of used to my mom and my brother not letting me participate, that’s been a lifelong thing. For Mother’s Day, my husband’s two sisters, his daughter and his niece, and his mother all got together but went to great lengths to make sure I would not find out about it except I did. I think everyone’s either embarrassed or they don’t care enough to comment on it. These are the people I have gone to great lengths to help, each and every one of them, without giving it a second thought. I’m just wondering, am I really that off-putting, disgusting, is there something about me that makes people recoil?” What can we tell her?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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Is she being targeted by the interlopers to have her be discounted and excluded by her family?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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She asks: “Maybe it’s just time to move on and see what’s out there in the world. My husband does nothing to make me feel included. He’s basically zoned out and doesn’t notice anything even when I mention it over and over. Yeah, he’s completely checked out. He claims he loves me and he does many nice things for me but emotionally there’s no one home. Should I start thinking about moving on? Is it time to go? It’s hard to stay in a place where you feel invisible. I mean both families? How can that be a coincidence? Is there something Creator can say to bring light to my very sad and confusing situation?” What can we tell her?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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She asks: “When I was very little, I used to think how great it would be if I had, I don’t know, intuitive knowings, see things others can’t, know things others don’t, understand the nature of this world in a way that most don’t take the time to think about. I thought those things would be cool. Turns out they’re not. Turns out they’re horrible. Turns out it makes for a terrible time trying to blend in with those around me. I don’t mean to sound conceited. I’m not saying I’m all that, I’m not, but I’m not the same either. I’m different, and I hate that because It’s getting harder and harder to fake it and pretend I don’t notice what I noticed, and pretend that I’m not who I am, if that even makes sense. I don’t even know how to “turn it off.” I am feeling like such a weirdo. Will I ever fit in anywhere? I have the best intentions. I don’t have hidden agendas. I really want everybody to make it and I’m genuinely happy when good things happen to other people. Why does it have to be so hard?” What can we tell her?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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When we look at all of creation, we observe how much Creator values non-conformity. Every snowflake is unique, every grain of sand. Yet the dominant characteristic of the suburb is its stultifying conformity. One of the “outcomes” of suburban living is the widely observed phenomenon of “keeping up with the Joneses.” How much of this is repressed creativity wanting recognition, and how much is it a pursuit of power obsession that reveals the influence of the interlopers?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
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Another observed aspect of life in suburbia is how “lonely” it is. Even more so now than fifty years ago. People can live next door to each other, and almost NEVER even see each other. Lawn services have eliminated the need to be outside for landscape maintenance, and even garage door openers mean never having to use the front door or even be seen outside carrying groceries into the house. The days of borrowing a cup of sugar from your neighbor are all but over in most places now. Many people build their own swimming pools, and community pools have been suffering for years. Even within the house, kids are “blessed” with their own rooms, so they don’t even have to interact with their siblings and even parents that often. Can Creator comment on this?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
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It has been stated that as much as one-third of America’s richest farmland has been lost to suburbia or “urban sprawl.” This seems like an unrecognized yet extraordinary cost for the privilege of having to cut a quarter acre of grass every week. Couple that with the need to keep actual vegetable gardens inconspicuous in many such communities, and it seems there is something truly amiss in the American Dream of life in suburbia. What is Creator’s perspective on this, and what does this loss of arable land truly signify?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
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The typical suburban home is actually built for a nuclear family with at least two or more children. Yet we see some McMansions with thousands of square feet of living space, and five bedrooms and bathrooms, being owned and lived in by childless couples. At some level, this seems a bit insane. Yet it is almost becoming the norm now. The defense is that the home is not just a dwelling, but an investment. Contrast all these underutilized investments with the growing and overwhelming homeless problem in this country, and one standing back from it all has to think, “There must be a better way!” What is Creator’s perspective on all of this?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
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Can Creator share how prayer work and the Lightworker Healing Protocol can help us create a better and more balanced collective future for all, that preserves some of the benefits of suburban living while mitigating and even eliminating most of its adverse effects?
ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • 
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Why is this delisting of people from Internet access happening more and more, particularly those with certain ideological beliefs, what are the dangers, and where will this lead?
ClosedNicola asked 6 years ago • 
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