Is there a meaningful difference in the way an orgasm functions and is experienced by the two sexes?

The experiencing of orgasm does differ in a number of respects between male and female humans. There is always an emotional overlay that is, in part, a conditioned response based on experience, that develops over time in reaching puberty and the onset of sexual feelings. How they are addressed and experienced will begin to set a pattern, and this turns into habits, and because of the greatly rewarding sensations of sexual feelings, whatever early sexual practices are engaged in will often become a compelling habit that is sought and engaged with over and over, usually as a solitary endeavor well before the person finds an eventual mate allowing actual sexual intimacy with another human being. Prior to that, will be physical pleasure associated with self-stimulation to trigger arousal, and eventually a climax. Because the sexes differ in their motivations, perspectives, makeup, and the kinds of lifestyle they are primed for by their soul makeup to seek out and favor from personal experience, the major difference between the sexes is that achieving sexual gratification, and the experiencing of it, is a simpler matter and less complicated for males than for females because females are more invested emotionally, in the meaning of the sexual experience. And this will be quite dependent on many factors regarding how the female views the partner and the prospects for a longer-term relationship. One of the greatest differences between the sexes is that males are much more inclined and willing to engage in casual sexual encounters than females. So there are built-in reservations about intimacy, with females having higher standards and requirements needing to be met before they will even consider a rendezvous with a male, whereas a high percentage of men, who are unattached and not in a relationship, are quite willing to engage in a casual sexual encounter. There are basic biologic differences in what it takes to reach an orgasm in terms of the setting, the interactions with another partner, and the emotional experiencing needed to achieve the pleasures of an orgasm, and because of anatomical differences and the makeup of the physiology, with differing hormonal drives and the more complex innervation with nerve endings in the female anatomy, there can be more variety in the way females experience sexual congress. There is an irony in the perception and understanding of sexual needs and experiencing in these differences in the makeup and the consequences that play out with physical intimacy. How the respective partners respond, and what they need to have a fulfilling sexual encounter, rather than being an impediment for the female, in a sense, to have a more difficult challenge to reach a full degree of arousal and orgasm, this is actually part of Creator's Plan, to create a kind of challenge that is meant to be true for both of the partners, male and female. So males will need to make an extra effort to give nurturing and affection to the female. And, on the part of females having a deeper and more complex set of needs, in effect, to have biologically, a tougher set of criteria needing to be met by prospective male partners who may, in effect, fail the test if they cannot be sensitive to the needs of the woman. They will need to be more attentive, and devote time and effort to cope with the slower pace of the human female sexual response as a demonstration of true love and caring about the woman and her needs, and this will rightly be perceived as a true indicator of devotion on the part of the male partner, and may well end up governing whether they are deemed suitable for a long-term relationship. So this speaks to the complexity of things that seem to be an inherent mismatch when the opposite is the case. They are a way of representing the fact that physical intimacy has a high purpose and great value to both males and female humans, who will learn from physical encounters, much about the workings of love and developing strong bonds of commitment to foster a lasting relationship, as many times it requires some degree of repeat engagements and the developing of deepened intimacy over time before sexual acts truly become enjoyable for the female. Thus, this acts as a kind of regulator of both loyalty and compatibility assessment, and becomes a criterion for acceptance, or rejection of unsuitable partners, as the case might be.