A viewer asks: “My real concern is for the GetWisdom mission. I have made a habit of putting my head above the parapet in disseminating information. If I am being abducted in this life, could that make me an unwitting Trojan horse, so to speak? The reason I raise this is because, as you know, my wife recently passed. Late last year, while lying in bed we both witnessed unusual light phenomena through the curtains in the early hours. The tough question is, has my involvement in GetWisdom contributed to my wife’s demise? I am prepared for whatever the answer may be! Please understand that I would never normally write to you as I’m well aware of the mountain of work you have ahead of you, it just feels like I need some inner resolution so I can proceed forward with my life.” What can we tell him?

We can reassure you that your wife’s passing is unconnected to your history or your current explorations in wanting to learn more about healing for yourself and the things you know and have been a part of. So this was not a reprisal or in any way a consequence of your actions, but was strictly a function of her own history and her destiny, as that was under her control and was her decision in conjunction with the higher self to use that exit point because it was available and was deemed to be appropriate for her. Again, the reasonings behind this all were the workings of karma seeking to find a resolution and a balancing for many disparate events taking place in various times and places, including other lifetimes, involving both her and you, yourself, such that your losing a loved one in this way was factored in also. Sometimes that is providing an unexpected and unseen blessing because to have a tragic loss, even though painful, does rebalance a karmic debt or obligation in going through that loss personally, and therefore achieves healing that is much needed and simply must be faced at some point. And many times it is better to simply get it over with and take your lumps, so to speak, so that you can have clear sailing in the future for the next go-round, wherever that might be, and so it may be the lesser of evils to have that happen rather than delay, delay, delay with the risk of it being compounded then through a combination with a series of interrelated events that may hit all at once and be even more devastating. So you need not feel responsible in any way for this loss, even though you are certainly affected and feeling it within you—that cannot be helped and this is the price paid for this arrangement. We care deeply about each human being. We have the luxury of knowing and seeing the big picture that "You are part of us and that will always be so." It makes it easier when you leave the heavenly realm where we are interacting, normally directly, with one another and you are gone for a time and quite disconnected from us. This is hard both on you and on us as well, so we enjoy the return of each person even though it is a tragic loss and then a source of considerable misery oftentimes for loved ones left behind. So your discomfort and concern are perfectly understandable, but you can rest assured that nothing untoward has happened that was within your control or ability to alter. The workings of karma are quite powerful and they have a reason and logic of their own, and often simply need to be allowed to play out, as unpleasant as that might be in the near-term. Things will work out for you in the future, and for her as well, and there will be a glorious reunion one day and you will see all of this much more clearly at that time.