In the first instance, it is rarely of benefit to inform someone of a deep dark past of this kind. This can be quite disturbing, disorienting, and discouraging. The well-intentioned notion here is understandable and your wish for your friend to receive help is divine, but it is important to not add to burdens and thereby cause additional harm. There is a time and a place for people to learn about their deep past. It is rarely while they are in the physical, at their most vulnerable and lowest level of understanding about their situation, their history, and its implications, and the possibilities of their future.
We are not trying to dodge the question. We are saying that there are things to keep in mind and to allow things to develop a bit on their own. If you are objective and do not intrude with your own projections and theories, you can share all you know about the phenomena you have experienced and see what develops with his level of insight and understanding, whether there is any interest or perhaps a need to avoid many subjects altogether—this is an important indication there is lack of readiness to engage directly. That does not mean you cannot be of service and help to him. You can bring much healing his way without ever broaching these dark subjects in a way to suggest they may apply to him—that can be a great mistake. People are often more fragile than they appear and you do not want to have a karmic burden from taking a misstep that causes harm. So we would simply say go slow here and send him healing for his situation, and that can work things out through the divine realm without an entanglement that could draw you into something you need not take responsibility for.
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